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A Lesson We Have To Relearn From Time To Time Posted: 19 Sep 2012 08:49 PM PDT Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you. And Stay. I've had to remind myself of this more often, more recently. I'm my Mother's Daughter. People Pleaser. I do things for others, for the most part, cos it makes me happy to do so. What doesn't make me happy, is when I forget to see if the relationship is a give and take, or only take. Lately it's has been the latter. When I come to realize I've been exhausting myself, with very little or no gratitude in return, I get bitter. Very very bitter. And jilted. And jaded. Which leaves me with a Negative Nelly attitude. I don't like her. Not one bit. It's sad I have to get mad at the world, myself, people to get my ass in gear and just do what makes me happy. Being active. My friends, the majority of them - are not. They will be my lazy friends. I will obtain new ones. Ones that like the things I like, and want to leave the house to do them. Not just talk about doing them one day. Indoor Rock Climbing Hiking (not a fan, but I do it) Snowshoeing Camping Surfing Yoga I'm on it. If you're with me, great. If not, I'll call you when I want to sit around and do nothing with someone. |
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