Just Saying...

Just Saying...

A Lesson We Have To Relearn From Time To Time

Posted: 19 Sep 2012 08:49 PM PDT

Don't chase people.
Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard.
The right people - the ones who really belong in your life - will come to you.
And Stay.

I've had to remind myself of this more often, more recently.
I'm my Mother's Daughter.
People Pleaser.

I do things for others, for the most part, cos it makes me happy to do so.
What doesn't make me happy, is when I forget to see
if the relationship is a give and take, or only take.
Lately it's has been the latter.

When I come to realize I've been exhausting myself, with very little
or no gratitude in return, I get bitter.
Very very bitter.
And jilted.
And jaded.

Which leaves me with a Negative Nelly attitude.
I don't like her.
Not one bit.

It's sad I have to get mad at the
world, myself, people
to get my ass in gear and just do what makes me happy.

Being active.
My friends, the majority of them - are not.
They will be my lazy friends.
I will obtain new ones.
Ones that like the things I like, and
want to leave the house to do them.
Not just talk about doing them
one day.

Indoor Rock Climbing
Hiking (not a fan, but I do it)

I'm on it.
If you're with me, great.
If not, I'll call you when I want
to sit around and do nothing
with someone.