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| Posted: 27 Nov 2011 06:34 PM PST And I'm single again. Sort of. It's complicated. It's a semi long distance relationship. He spends more time out of town than he does in town. Though it's only a couple hours away it still sucks. When he is in town, his Mummy has a to-do list for him to tend too....on his own house. A house she does not live at. This arrangement works for them, as he's away so often, but leaves little room for any serious romance. We talk a lot of the phone, at night and on weekends. Though it's taking it's toll on me and since we're so new at being together again, I'm starting to wonder if this is worth it? If I knew there was a future to look forward too, or felt more secure about where we currently stand, then I might not even be asking this question. How do people do it? I might even ask the roommate, as he's been doing the on/off again long distance with his g/f when he has to travel for work. Sometimes it's for 6 months at a time. Plus not seeing her during the week..... I'd like to think I'm capable of managing. Maybe I could with someone I'm securely established with, but with someone I'm so new to dating??? In other news. I spoke with The Douche tonight. Only a couple minutes, though very full of conversation. I asked him not touch base anymore. I have no malicious reason. I'm not pissed at him for anything. I simply do not see the point. If we can't openly be friends or open acquaintances, then I see no point in staying in touch. Was I harsh or fair? Told him he could contact me until the new year, to smooth over any questions or loose ends he might have etc. Though I doubt he'll have any. He was very quiet. Which means he's in shock, or simply has nothing to say. Plus he'll be married in 7/8 months. And whatever acquaintanceship we have would most definitely have to end at that time anyways. So I'm single-ish again, and tightly close the novel to the Douche. Bittersweet, though necessary.   |
| Posted: 27 Nov 2011 09:02 AM PST This video is circulating the interwebz right now. It's beautiful. It's powerful. End Marriage Discrimination from www.getup.org.au/marriagematters. I want this for my nephew John John.   |
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